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Post by catlady on Jul 17, 2011 0:47:08 GMT -5
I was kind of uncertain about starting this thread, but since nobody else had, I figured I would give it a go. This is where you talk about all your crushes, flings, marriages, blah blah blah. You get the point.
For me, I haven't even been on a date since February and I couldn't be happier with that. After Matt and I broke up, I dated another guy for a few months and it just ended up making me more depressed to be honest. So I started fresh and had to learn to be alone without being lonely. My brain and heart were a crumpled fucking car wreck after Matt, but we have grown to be great friends now and I just want to be by myself for a bit. Every now and then I meet a cute boy to flirt with, but I'm never intentionally searching for something. It's a nice feeling to finally have. It makes me feel rather free.
tl;dr - fuck dicks, make money.
your turn!
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Post by apathy on Jul 17, 2011 0:53:46 GMT -5
I don't know why people go on so much about marriage.
I still am in love with Dillon, we still live together, we're great, blah blah blah.
The only thing that changed were our tax forms and my driver's license. And now people don't judge us for living together, but those people didn't really matter anyway.
Marriage sort of feels overrated to me, it's not a great expression of love and it's not some great institution. It's still the little things that count to me. I don't ever want to be known as someone's wife. I don't want my identity to be that I'm married. But that doesn't mean I want to be divorced because I'm totally in love with Dillon and I still feel kind of lightheaded about it.
Does that make sense, though?
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Post by Bottle on Jul 17, 2011 0:56:02 GMT -5
March was the worst month of my life. Sloane dumped me. Most of you know this.
I still cry about him every night. I've been trying everything short of lobotomy to try and get over him. Tried the staying single thing. Try going out and dating people and it just makes me feel like a whore. But getting laid at least distracts me for a millisecond. The only other way I've been able to cope is drinking heavily.
Bleh. Sorry I'm a depressing fuck.
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Post by emmeth on Jul 17, 2011 1:26:01 GMT -5
I'm pissed. Whoooo in the fuck tells their brand new girlfriend, whom they hadn't even met yet, that their best friend is in love with them? Who?! Someone name me one person who has done this and hasn't been a complete fucking moron for doing it. UGH I HATE HIM BUT I LOVE HIM SOMEONE FUCKING SHOOT ME PLEASE.
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Post by Ka on Jul 17, 2011 1:46:32 GMT -5
Oh, Em. I love you and would never shoot you unless you were a zombie.
What a dummy best friend is.
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Post by Jon on Jul 17, 2011 2:21:31 GMT -5
im in the same boat with lindsay in the fact that im single and happy about it. i had a few relationships recently that i wont go into detail about because you guys have heard enough about one of them at least. after that i decided i needed some time away to figure out things for me before diving into anything further. there have been small things here and there but nothing serious and im not really looking for anything right now, but i probably wouldnt be opposed to it if the right thing came along.
tl;dr basically i have nothing to add to this thread, and even if i do i probably wont be posting out of respect
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Post by Jon on Jul 17, 2011 2:22:39 GMT -5
March was the worst month of my life. Sloane dumped me. Most of you know this. I still cry about him every night. I've been trying everything short of lobotomy to try and get over him. Tried the staying single thing. Try going out and dating people and it just makes me feel like a whore. But getting laid at least distracts me for a millisecond. The only other way I've been able to cope is drinking heavily. Bleh. Sorry I'm a depressing fuck. <3 keep in there nicole, i know its not what you want to hear right now, but time is the best medicine for such things. it might not be today or tomorrow, but that day will come.
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Brittany
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Post by Brittany on Jul 17, 2011 3:58:32 GMT -5
I'm always single because when guys wanna get serious I'm always like lolno or get drunk and ruin it. Either way I come out successful. Plus I feel way worse when I hurt a guy so I try to stay away but.... they don't stay away.
But no I have a crush and recently developed a new crush. They both live kinda far which is perfect. I love having crushes because I never have to act on them. I can just oogle.
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Post by michaelson on Jul 17, 2011 10:31:18 GMT -5
So, my input is nothing new. Shelly and I have been together for almost 2 years now. Everything is great, we're happy and very in love
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I'm not sad anymore.
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Post by freakozoid on Jul 17, 2011 13:51:31 GMT -5
I'm going to fucking hell for what I'm doing. But it makes me happy so idgaf.
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Post by celadon on Jul 17, 2011 14:12:17 GMT -5
I'm going to fucking hell for what I'm doing. But it makes me happy so idgaf. Save me a seat then? Brian and I are on a year, five months and some days as of this posting. Distance sucks but we're managing; makes the time we do have a bit more special. I just wish life would stop shitting on him so frequently.
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Post by emmeth on Jul 18, 2011 13:19:10 GMT -5
Well well well...guess who finally fessed up to cheating on me?
Whatever.
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Post by january on Jul 18, 2011 14:44:43 GMT -5
Married. For a long long long long time. So it goes.
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Brittany
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Post by Brittany on Jul 19, 2011 0:37:32 GMT -5
What a doucher, Emily. I'm sorry.
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Brittany
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Mrs. Shevchuk
A brand new beatnik; a down-and-outer
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Post by Brittany on Jul 19, 2011 2:43:01 GMT -5
Today I learned that one of my crushes is into someone else. At first, I was like damn... but then I felt relief. It was weird. I realize that there's no way in hell I have time for a guy and am also scared shitless of wanting to even be with one.
In fact, I decided that when my other crush's band rolls through Denver in August, I will not be attending. It's so much easier that way and I feel a helluva lot better when I'm occupied with myself instead of someone else.
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